THIS TOO SHAL PASS~~ NEXT STEP

      I WOULD LIKE TO TALK ABOUT MY HUSBAND. WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED 231/2 YEARS NOW. IT IS ALOT OF WORK FOR US BOTH.. IN ALOT OF WAYS IT MUST BE MUCH MORE DIFFICULT ON HIM. HE MARRIED A VIBRANT ACTIVE WOMEN,WITHIN 15 YEARS HE HAS A WIFE WHO MIGHT AS WELL BE 95. HE LOST  A PARTNER TO GO OUT WITH AND ENJOY THE WORLD TOGETHER. A PARTNER TO NOURISH HIM AFTER A LONG HARD DAY OR WHEN HE IS SICK ( FACE IT MEN ARE WORSE THAN KIDS WHEN SICK). HE WORRIES HIMSELF TO THE POINT OF DISTRACTION. I REALLY WISH HE WOULDN'T, IN THE LONG RUN IT KEEPS HIM FROM BEING ABLE TO FUNCTION. TO HIM I SAY    " LESS WORRY MORE ACTION ". BESIDES THE WORRYING ONLY MAKES HIM SICK. HE IS A MAN WITH A GOOD HEART , AND MESSY EXTERIOR. NOT ONLY WAS MY LIFE TAKEN FROM ME BUT SO WAS HIS. I AM GLAD, ALOT OF THE TIME HE THINKS OF  HIMSELF FIRST  I AM SURE THAT HAS KEPT HIM AS HEALTHY AS HE IS AND HELPED KEEPS US TOGETHER, KEEPS THE RESENTMENT DOWN AND ALL THAT  KIND OF STUFF. THERE ARE TIMES I WOULD RATHER HE THINK OF ME AND MY NEEDS MORE. HE'S NOT BUILT THAT WAY AND LIKE I SAID MAYBE IT IS A GOOD THING. THANKS G FOR STICKING IT OUT AND NOT STICKING ME IN A NURSING HOME. THANKS FOR ALL YOU'VE DONE.